“Some of the most beautiful chaptes in our lives won’t have a title until much later.”
It’s’ easy to keep a positive attitude when things seem to be going your way. But what do you do when things seem to be going completely in the opposite direction of what you expected? Enter COVID-19. The coronavirus is a disease that stems from a family of viruses named SARS-CoV-2. This novel and never seen before coronavirus is responsible for the worldwide outbreak and global pandemic that has brought the entire world to its knees. As a result, many of us are on lockdown, quarantine, or self-quarantine in a worldwide effort to slow the spread of the virus.
The key to keeping a positive attitude during trying times like these — is to stay focused. While this may sound like it’s easier said than done — staying focused during trying times is the best way to get through a rough patch while keeping your sanity intact. In this article, we talk about 4 ways to stay focused on the positives when everything in your life seems to be out of control.
1. Be honest with yourself.
If preserving good mental health and sanity is your goal during times of uncertainty, being honest with yourself is the quickest way to put things in perspective. Being honest with yourself clears a mental path for “real” solutions that can help keep you focused and moving forward regardless of what obstacles may lay ahead.
It’s okay to not know what’s coming next. The important thing is to know that you are mentally prepared for any challenge that may arise and that you can overcome it. Not being honest with yourself places you in danger of missing important facts or information that you need to stay safe and mentally alert during these uncertain times.
2. Practice extreme self-care.
It may seem strange to talk about self-care when everything in your life is turned upside down, but it’s necessary. Taking the time to spend at least a few minutes doing what you love is a great way to take your mind off negative circumstances happening around you and gives you a fresh perspective on the situation.
Self-care doesn’t look the same for everyone. Some of us like to snuggle up with a good book, journal our feelings, or spend time cuddling pets. For others, self-care may look like a candlelit bath, indoor exercise, or talking on the phone with a trusted friend. Whatever self-care happens to look like for you — when times are tough, more self-care is needed than ever before.
3. Follow a regular schedule.
The last thing you need in times of uncertainty — is more uncertainty. Create a daily schedule for yourself and your family so that everyone knows what is expected of them throughout the day. Examples of important tasks to add to your daily schedule are — breakfast, lunch, and dinner, exercise, work, and school-related activities, bathing and grooming, and downtime.
Following your daily schedule gives you a sense of normalcy in your life that is often missing during times of crisis and uncertainty. Keeping yourself and your family on track is the best way to avoid falling into disorganized chaos, boredom, or depression as we all struggle with adjusting to our “new normal.”
“Trust the wait. Embrace the uncertainty. When nothing is certain — anything is possible.”
4. Stay focused on the positives.
While it may be tempting (and easy) to look at all the negative aspects of an uncertain situation, it’s not really necessary as the negatives speak for themselves. Focus on what’s going right and give yourself a pat on the back for keeping your shit together in the meantime. Otherwise, you may find yourself quickly falling into a spiral of negativity and self-defeating thoughts. These kinds of thoughts can make a bad situation feel ten times worse. Stay positive — regardless of the chaos that is happening around you.
In the meantime, keep following the medical advice of your local representatives and public health officials and remember — we’re all in this together. Stay focused, stay alert, stay safe.
About Michelle S. Loyd — msloydwrites
Freelance Writer. Marketer. Influencer. #GameChanger
Ms. Loyd is a mental health advocate who personally understands the daily struggles of others living with mental health concerns including anxiety.
Michelle currently enjoys writing uplifting and informative articles on the topics of mental health including anxiety, bipolar, post-traumatic stress disorder, and depression.
Other topics of interest include — artificial intelligence, psychology, technology, artificial intelligence, and space exploration.
These articles provide a humanistic view of the challenges today’s society is facing together with realistic expectations and manageable options for change.